Values!

I was entering to a restaurant and I noticed that hardly no one opens the door to the person who is coming behind them, I observed there while I was waiting to be seated and several guys didn't even open the the door for girls. What is happening with the gentleman's now days? No more opening the car door, no flowers, or chocolates. I think that many young people might say that those things are old school and girls don't appreciate them anymore, but who does not like a guy to send her flowers or chocolates? Who doesn't like a gentlement? The values have changed with time, now it seems that the girls needs to treat the boys, and maybe it is because of the idea of feminism that we are all the same, but i think it is also education and values that parents provide to their children since little. Kindness with others is a value that we as society are losing, if you are walking on the street hardly anyone says hi! or good morning! Everyone is becoming so self-centered that we don't look around to see that there are others that also exist and that by providing a simple smile or a Hi! to a stranger can make the other person feel better. Cell phones and texting have also stop us from communicate one to one, sometimes there is a group of more than two people together, and instead of talking with themselves each of them is with their cellphone texting! Whats the point? I mean if you have something to share, share it with the person you have infront not by texting. What do you think is the main reason why now days we are less kind and humble with others?